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The Biblical Perspective on Divorce: A Closer Look at Scripture.

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Ochili Michael
Divorce is a complex and sensitive topic that pervades modern society. As we seek guidance on this matter, it is essential to turn to the Bible, which holds great significance for millions of believers worldwide. The Bible offers insights and teachings on divorce, providing a moral compass for those navigating this challenging issue. In this article, we will explore what the Bible says about divorce and examine key biblical verses that shed light on this topic.

The Sanctity of Marriage:
The Bible consistently emphasizes the sanctity of marriage, portraying it as a sacred covenant between a man and a woman. In the book of Genesis, God establishes marriage as a union, stating, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh" (Genesis 2:24 ESV). This verse underscores the permanence and unity that marriage represents, highlighting the significance of the marital bond.

CHRIST' Teachings About Divorce:
In the New Testament, Jesus further expounds on the topic of divorce, providing crucial insights into God's intentions for marriage. In Matthew 19:4-6, Jesus reaffirms the divine design for marriage, stating, "He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, 'Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.' So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate" (ESV).

This passage emphasizes the indissoluble nature of the marital union, with Jesus explicitly discouraging divorce. However, Jesus acknowledges the reality of human sinfulness and permits divorce in cases of marital unfaithfulness, as mentioned in Matthew 19:9: 
"And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery"(ESV).
 It is crucial to note that Jesus' exception clause refers specifically to adultery, indicating that divorce should not be pursued for trivial reasons.

Paul's Teachings on Divorce:
The Apostle Paul also addresses the topic of divorce in his letters, providing further guidance to early Christian communities. In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Paul advises, "To the married, I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife" (ESV).

Paul's teachings highlight the importance of reconciliation within marriage and discourage divorce as a solution. However, he acknowledges that separation may occur, urging spouses to remain unmarried or seek reconciliation. This demonstrates the biblical emphasis on preserving the sanctity of marriage and the commitment to work towards reconciliation whenever possible.

Pastoral Care and Compassion:
While the Bible provides clear guidelines on divorce, it is essential to approach this topic with compassion and understanding. Divorce can be a painful and complex experience, and the church should offer support and pastoral care to individuals facing such circumstances. Christians are called to extend love, grace, and empathy to those navigating the challenges ofAa divorce, providing a safe space for healing and restoration.

In Conclusion:
The Bible offers profound insights into the topic of divorce, emphasizing the sanctity of marriage and discouraging its dissolution. While divorce is permitted in cases of marital unfaithfulness, the biblical teachings encourage reconciliation and the preservation of the marital bond. As believers, it is crucial to approach divorce with compassion, providing support to those affected while upholding the biblical principles that guide our understanding of this complex issue.

Ochili MichaeI Esq.
Legal Consultant.
Altnt Secretary in House xouncil
NBA, Abuja.

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