Skip to main content

Communication is vital the success of every relationship.






Communication is very necessary in a relationship or marriage.
To communicate means to interact with one another.



To maintain a healthy relationship communication is very paramount.

Communication is indeed crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. It helps build trust, understanding, and emotional connection between partners.


Here are a few reasons why communication is paramount in a relationship:

1. Emotional intimacy: Open and honest communication allows partners to share their thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities with each other. This fosters emotional intimacy and strengthens the bond between partners.

2. Resolving conflicts: Effective communication helps in resolving conflicts and disagreements. It allows both partners to express their concerns, listen to each other's perspectives, and work towards finding mutually satisfying solutions.

3. Building trust: When partners communicate openly and honestly, it builds trust in the relationship. Trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship, and good communication helps create a safe and secure environment for both partners to share their thoughts and feelings.

4. Understanding each other's needs: Communication enables partners to understand each other's needs, desires, and expectations. By openly discussing these aspects, couples can work together to meet each other's needs and maintain a balanced and fulfilling relationship.

5. Strengthening connection: Regular communication helps partners stay connected and engaged with each other's lives. By sharing daily experiences, dreams, and goals, couples can grow together and maintain a strong emotional connection.

6. Avoiding misunderstandings: Lack of communication can lead to misunderstandings and assumptions. By being open and clear in your communication, you can avoid unnecessary conflicts and ensure that both partners have a shared understanding of each other's thoughts and feelings.

Remember, communication is a two-way street, and both partners need to actively participate and listen to each other. By prioritizing open and honest communication, you can create a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
Improving communication with your partner is essential for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Here are some tips to help you enhance your communication skills:

1. Active listening: Practice active listening by giving your partner your full attention. Avoid interrupting or planning your response while they are speaking. Show that you are engaged by nodding, making eye contact, and asking clarifying questions.

2. Express yourself clearly: Be clear and concise when expressing your thoughts, feelings, and needs. Avoid vague or ambiguous statements that could lead to misunderstandings. Use "I" statements to express how you feel, rather than blaming or criticizing your partner.

3. Non-verbal communication: Pay attention to your body language and non-verbal cues, as they can convey messages as effectively as words. Maintain good eye contact, use open and relaxed body language, and be aware of your tone of voice.
4. Empathy and understanding: Try to put yourself in your partner's shoes and understand their perspective. Show empathy by acknowledging their feelings and validating their experiences. Avoid being defensive or dismissive of their emotions.

5. Timing is key: Choose the right time and place to discuss important matters. Avoid discussing sensitive topics when you or your partner are tired, stressed, or distracted. Find a calm and private setting where you can both focus on the conversation.

6. Practice patience: Be patient and give your partner time to express themselves fully. Avoid rushing or interrupting them. Remember that effective communication takes time and effort from both sides.

7. Use positive language: Frame your statements in a positive and constructive manner. Instead of focusing on what your partner is doing wrong, emphasize what you appreciate about them and suggest improvements as a team.

8. Seek clarification: If you are unsure about something your partner said, ask for clarification rather than making assumptions. This will help avoid misunderstandings and ensure that you both have a clear understanding of each other's thoughts and feelings.

9. Practice conflict resolution: Learn to manage conflicts in a healthy and productive way. Use "I" statements to express your concerns, actively listen to your partner's perspective, and work together to find a mutually beneficial solution.

10. Seek professional help if needed: If you find that communication issues persist despite your efforts, consider seeking the help of a couples therapist or relationship counselor. They can provide guidance and teach you effective communication techniques tailored to your specific situation.

Remember, improving communication is an ongoing process that requires effort and commitment from both partners. By practicing these tips consistently, you can strengthen your connection and foster a more open and understanding relationship.

Lack of communication in marriage or relationship can hinder the success of the relationship or destroy the progress of it.

Lack of communication in a relationship have various negative effects, as effective communication is vital for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling partnership.

Here are some vital consequences of inadequate communication in a relationship:

1. Misunderstandings and conflicts: When partners do not communicate effectively, misunderstandings can arise. Without clear communication, assumptions and misinterpretations can lead to unnecessary conflicts and arguments.

2. Emotional distance: Lack of communication can create emotional distance between partners. When thoughts, feelings, and needs are not shared openly, it can result in a sense of disconnect and isolation. Over time, this can erode the emotional bond between partners.

3. Resentment and frustration: When communication is lacking, partners may feel unheard or ignored. This can lead to feelings of resentment and frustration, as one or both individuals may feel their needs are not being met or their opinions are not valued.

4. Decreased intimacy: Intimacy, both emotional and physical, relies on open and honest communication. When communication is lacking, it can impact the level of intimacy in the relationship. Partners may feel less connected and struggle to express their desires and needs, leading to a decline in intimacy.

5. Lack of problem-solving: Effective communication is essential for problem-solving within a relationship. When communication is poor, issues and challenges may go unresolved, leading to a buildup of resentment and dissatisfaction.

6. Decreased trust and insecurity: Without open and honest communication, trust can erode in a relationship. Partners may feel uncertain about each other's intentions or may doubt the authenticity of their communication. This can create insecurity and strain the trust within the partnership.

7. Stagnation or lack of growth: Communication is crucial for personal and relationship growth. Without effective communication, partners may struggle to express their desires, goals, and aspirations. This can lead to a lack of personal and relationship development and a feeling of stagnation.


It is important to recognize the impact of poor communication and actively work towards improving it in your relationship. By prioritizing open and honest communication, partners can address these negative effects and foster a healthier and more fulfilling connection.


Comments

Popular posts from this blog

breaking news- NBA Garki Branch remains steadfastly at the forefront. "I inspire others to aspire to greatness, encouraging them to make a positive impact on their respective roles and communities"- NBA president

NBA president delivered an interesting speech During the NBA garki Branch, law week. In his speech the Mr Y.C Maikyua, SAN The dark, tall & huge learned silk, said that the significant highlight of Law Week has been the unveiling of a new journal, symbolizing their branch's unwavering commitment to fostering knowledge sharing and intellectual discourse within the legal fraternity.    According to him, the learned silk in his Facebook page stated that's; I delivered the opening address at the ongoing Law Week. In my remarks, I wish to extend my heartfelt appreciation to numerous individuals and underscore the profound importance of this event. A significant highlight of Law Week has been the unveiling of a new journal, symbolizing our branch's unwavering commitment to fostering knowledge sharing and intellectual discourse within the legal fraternity. This edition promises to serve as an invaluable resource for legal practitioners and enthusiasts alike. ...

Constitutional guide lines on the removal of a judge and the legality of suspension of the Nigerian's CJN. By the Executive President.

The constitutional directions with respect to removal of  judges from office and the legality or otherwise of the suspension of the CJN. By virtue of section 292, the constitution reads: “(1) A judicial officer shall not be removed from his office or appointment before his age of retirement except in the following circumstances -(a) in the case of – (i) Chief Justice of Nigeria, President of the Court of Appeal, Chief Judge of the Federal High Court, Chief Judge of the High Court of the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja, Grand Kadi of the Sharia Court of Appeal of the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja and President, Customary Court of Appeal of the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja, by the president acting on an address supported by two-thirds majority of the Senate. “(ii) Chief Judge of a State, Grand Kadi of a Sharia Court of Appeal or President of a Customary Court of Appeal of a State, by the Governor acting on an address supported by two-thirds majority of the House of Asse...

breaking news- Notable personalities drums support for the Otu-okaiwu Abuja apprenticeship scheme and made emphasis on the need to make it a national project.

find other interesting articles via a click. The Nigerian legal system has been subjected to scrutiny over the years due to its corrupt practices. However, a unique and valuable apprenticeship model, called the Igba Boyi Endowment, has been launched to transfer knowledge and skills from experienced lawyers to young lawyers. This model promotes mentorship and career development for young lawyers and is inclusive of members from all backgrounds, not just Igbo lawyers. The Otu-okaiwu Abuja (Igbo Lawyers Association) hosted the Igba Boyi Endowment Launch on Thursday, September 14, 2023, which received wide-spectrum support from notable members of the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA), including the President of the NBA, Mr. Yakubu C. Maikyau. Other personalities present at the event include former Chief Executive Officer of the Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission (NERC), Prof. Sam Amadi, Chief Awa Kalu, SAN, Kanu Agabi, SAN, and Benbella Anachebe, SAN. Senator B...

Court Halts NLC, TUC from Commencing November 14 Strike.

find other interesting articles via this click. In response to the recent assault on the national president of the Nigeria Labour Congress (NLC), Joe Ajaero, in Imo State, the unions threatened to embark on a nationwide strike. However, the National Industrial Court (NIC) has intervened and restrained the NLC, the Trade Union Congress (TUC), and their affiliates from carrying out any form of strike or industrial action. President of the Court, Justice Benedict Kanyip, issued the restraining order following an ex-parte application brought before the Court by the Federal Government of Nigeria and the Attorney General of the Federation and Minister of Justice. The order, based on Sections 17 and 19 of the National Industrial Court Act, aims to prevent the planned strike action. The Federal Government and the Attorney General, represented by their lawyer Tijani Gazali, argued that the strike action would inflict untold hardships on innocent law-abiding citizens and their businesses. Gazali...

Senator shehu Sani Has Advice the Government On How To End The Gruesome Killing In The North East and North Central Region.

Senator shehu Sani, the former member of the Senate House, who represented Kaduna central in the Seventh Senate, a human right activist and a panafricanist has criticized the gruesome killing of people in his state and insecurity in the entire region. The information reaching us from the tweeter handle of the freedom fighter, has it that there are fress killings in kajuru Local Government Area of the State,which the one time senator representing Kaduna state, has come boldly to criticize the act and ulge the Federal and State Government for a speed action in that regard. He therefore advice the Government on this, by suggesting that to end the Banditry & Herdsmen violence,President Buhari should delegate a committee of prominent pure fulani leaders such as Prof Jubril Aminu,Bukar Abba Ibrahim,ex Gov Sule Lamido,Prof Iya Abubakar,Dr Mahmud Tukur & others;they should engage all stakeholders & end the attacks. The fresh killings in Kajuru Lg Kaduna State reflects the...

Title: NBA President Strongly Condemns Attack on Judicial Officer in Gombe

In a recent incident that has sent shockwaves through the legal community, the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA) has confirmed an attack on a judge of the Upper Area Court in Balanga Local Government Area of Gombe State. The judge was visiting a locus in quo at the time of the assault, marking a distressing violation of the sanctity of the judiciary. The NBA, representing legal professionals across Nigeria, has swiftly condemned this act of violence and pledged to ensure that the perpetrators face the full weight of the law. The association's President has directed the collaboration of the NBA Gombe Branch and the NBA Security Agencies Relations Committee (SARC) with the Gombe State Police Command to promptly investigate and apprehend those responsible for this criminal contempt of court. Upholding the integrity of the judiciary and safeguarding the safety and well-being of judicial officers are paramount to the NBA. This condemnable incident serves as a stark reminder of ...

JOYCE ODUAH FICMC CELEBRATES THE FALLEN HEROES OF THE NIGERIAN MILITARY ON THE ARMED FORCES REMEMBRANCE DAY 2024

                 JOYCE ODUAH FICMC    Immd. Past General Secretary, Nigerian Bar Association & Vice President West Africa, PALU Former Council Member, IBA Today, we, as a nation, honour and pay tribute to the brave souls who have made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our beloved Nigeria.  Today, we stand united in gratitude, remembering the fallen heroes of the Nigerian Armed Forces with respect and admiration. In the face of danger, they displayed unwavering courage, confronting challenges head-on to preserve the security of our nation and protect the lives of fellow Nigerians. Their resilience, even in the darkest moments, has secured our unity and continuity. We remember the sacrifices made, the blood spilled, and the dedication shown by these selfless individuals. Today, we honour their memory and vow never to forget the price they paid for our freedom. To our heroes still standing, we extend our heartfe...

Good News As An Indian Doctor Successfully Carries Out A Stomach Tumour Surgery On A Nigerian.

Indian Doctors Successfully Remove The Huge Tumour from an Ebonyi man known as Odinaka Nweke's Stomach. A young Nigerian man identified as Odinaka Nweke Emmanuel has undergone successful gastric cancer surgery at Batra Hospital in New Delhi, India. This was made possible by the Igbos Love Themselves Charity Foundation who came together to source fund for his travel,in a post via its their official Facebook account  the Igbos love themselves made this known to the public on Saturday. According to the group on their Facebook handle has this to say: “Halleluya, Odinaka Nweke's surgery went successfully today in Batra Hospital New Delhi. To God be the Glory,” the Foundation joyfully announced on Facebook. From our source and Findings by Igbere TV shows that the Foundation had initially came to aid of the indigene of lkwo in Ebonyi state, and took him to India for surgery following his cry for help to help save his life. From the information reaching us  fro...

Overcoming Jealousy in Relationships: Building Trust and Finding Balance

Jealousy can be described as a complex emotion that arises from feelings of insecurity, fear, or anxiety about losing someone or something to a perceived rival. It often occurs in relationships or marriages when there is a perceived threat to the bond or connection between partners. Examples of jealousy in a relationship or marriage may include: 1.  Possessiveness Feeling threatened or insecure when your partner interacts with others, such as being jealous of their friendships or feeling uneasy when they spend time with someone of the opposite sex. 2. Suspicion, Constantly doubting your partner's actions or intentions, assuming they are being unfaithful or hiding something without any evidence. 3. Monitoring: Engaging in excessive checking or monitoring of your partner's activities, such as constantly checking their phone, social media accounts, or tracking their whereabouts. 4. Accusations : Making unfounded accusations of infidelity or betrayal without any solid e...

The Otu Oka-Iwu Abuja Executive Team, Led by Chief Chidi Udekwe, Esq., Pays Courtesy Visit to Hon. Justice Peter Obiorah JCA of the Court of Appeal, Abuja, Highlighting the Importance of Mentorship in the Legal Profession.

Otu Oka-Iwu Abuja, as the umbrella body of Igbo Lawyers in Abuja, Nigeria, recently paid a courtesy visit to Hon. Justice Peter Obiorah JCA of the Court of Appeal Abuja yesterday, 4th July, 2024. The purpose of this visit was to discuss the challenges faced by young lawyers in the early stages of their careers and emphasize the need for mentorship and guidance to help them excel in the legal profession. The team, led by Chief Chidi Udekwe, accompanied by some executive members of Otu Oka-Iwu Abuja, including the Secretary, Publicity Secretary, Financial Secretary, and Welfare Secretary, had the privilege of meeting with Hon. Justice Peter Obiorah JCA. During the visit, Justice Obiorah shared his personal anecdotes as a lawyer before his appointment to the bench. He emphasized the importance of integrity, standing for truth, and upholding the principles of justice, without regard to cultural or ethnic affiliations. He stressed that the pursuit of justice should be inclusive ...